Dating high maintenance guy
every step will feel like your entire sense of self-worth is on the line, struggling to survive.
There’s just no way you’ll be able to effectively seduce a man under that kind of pressure…
Instead of sinking down deeper and deeper into a negative emotion and feeding into the mental drama, you will simply shift your attention to remembering that you’re OK, and in the grand scheme of things, there really is no problem.
The bottom line is this: Most people (men and women) spend their lives believing they have a problem (or multiple problems), then spend all their time and attention mindlessly chasing after solutions to their mind-created problems.
Which brings me to the ultimate way to be stress-free throughout a seduction… Quiz If you fixate on one guy, you’re setting yourself up for a lot of stress.
On the other hand, if you have several desirable options, then you’ll find it quite natural to feel OK no matter what ends up happening with any one particular guy.
Until then, it is in your best interest to keep your options wide open and actively date around.
If you both explicitly decide that you’re going to be exclusive, that’s different.
If you want to successfully seduce a man, you have to realize that behaving like that is going to completely destroy your ability to do so.
Before you begin, you have to fully accept that you’re going to have fun and not stress over anything that happens.
You won’t dream up some fantasy future that you want to come true.
You won’t obsess over what the guy is or isn’t doing. You’ll have no deluded beliefs that being with him will somehow make you happier, make you more complete, or make your life any better than it is right now. there’s no drama, no unresolved issues, no victim story, etc. even when things don’t go as planned, even when something upsetting happens, even when everything falls apart… I’m not saying you become a robot devoid of emotions.
If you understand how a seductress thinks, views the world, and what her overall philosophy is, then you will probably automatically seduce people through your mindset alone…c ombined with the right moves, you’ll be an unstoppable force of nature. Is your goal to get out of the friend zone with a guy?